"Ahbib habibaka haunan ma, 'asa an yakuna baghidhoka yauman ma.
Wa abghidh baghidhoka haunan ma, 'asa an yakuna habibaka yauman ma"
Ertinya:
Cintailah kekasihmu itu sekedarnya saja, boleh jadi kamu akan membencinya suatu ketika.
Dan bencilah orang yang kamu benci sekedarnya saja, boleh jadi kamu akan mencintainya suatu ketika..
(HR. Tirmidzi).
"Love your friend moderately lest he becomes your enemy one day, and hate your enemy moderately lest he becomes your friend one day!" Tirmidhi
When we get extremely close to people and lower our guard by letting them know every detail of our life, trusting them with everything, a day can come when we regret because they can hold us ransom with what they know about us if the friendship is broken for some reason.
At times we cannot correct people because we have allowed them to get so close to us that they would use against us some of what they know of us.
Similarly when we dislike someone, we should never oppress them or do something unbecoming of a true believer as a day may come when a strong friendship is developed between us and we are embarrassed by past actions. Amazing piece of advice which is worth pondering over and making good use of in our lives.
An enemy can become a very great friend or relative and a friend can become a fierce enemy. "
The Almighty is all able to create between you and your enemies a strong bond of friendship for indeed Allah is All Able, Allah is Most Forgiving Most Merciful" S60 V7
- MUFTI ISMAIL MENK
Entah mengapa tatkala hadis di atas di baca, hati terasa seperti di sindir...
Allahu
Sempurnanya ISLAM, hatta sehingga dalam berperasaan pun kita diajar bersederhana..
Allahu Allahu..
Bantulah aku bersederhana dalam berperasaan..
Allahuakbar..
La haula wala quwwata illah billah..
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